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Just Happens to be LGBT: The NDO’s lasting impression

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Don’t forget about tourism and workplace relocation. The NDO protects citizens, residents and visitors. Perhaps more than the average demographic, LGBT people like to travel. With SA being the tourist town it is, the City just sent a strong nationwide message that when you come visit here, you have the right to be treated equally. Additionally, LGBT employees, and employers who have LGBT-friendly practices, that may wish to relocate to the Alamo City now have guarantees they didn’t have before. It’s a fact that the NDO is good for business. NDO support from the Hispanic and Greater San Antonio Chambers of Commerce made that clear.

Ecumenical matters matter. “Ecumenical” is a term that refers to the wider body of churches working together in unity and cooperation. Never has ecumenical discussion been more important than now. Although many churches railed against the ordinance, there were also many mainline Protestant churches, Jewish congregations, and even Catholic organizations (like the Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word) that vocalized their support of the measure. Unfortunately, much of the local mass media made it a point to show that “Christians” opposed the NDO. True, but Christians also supported it. No one has a monopoly on religious belief and scriptural interpretation, and it would be false to claim otherwise.

LGBT protections for public works, ISDs, higher ed, hospitals, and other public institutions. The City just blazed the trail by passing a fully inclusive NDO, and in a large way, made it easier for other entities to adopt the same measures, from independent school districts to healthcare agencies. Although some already possess protection for sexual orientation, it’s time to revisit the importance of transgender protection. And please don’t tell me about the “gay menace” infiltrating our schools and teaching our young people. Ridiculous! The Anita Bryant era is long-gone. Fear of gay teachers is so 40 years ago.

We “just happen to be LGBT.” Given this column’s title, the objective is often to show that LGBT people are not limited by our sexual orientation or gender identity. Those identifiers are just small parts of who we are, and when it comes to every other major element of our lives, many LGBT people would rather not be reduced to one way of describing ourselves. The NDO vote doesn’t further “ghettoize” us—instead, it opens the door for us to grow well beyond simplistic terms.

Each month we feature a reader’s personal “I am” statement that encompasses who they are. Send me your own “I am” statement in 100 words or less, and we’ll publish one statement each month. Contact us at currentlyrichard (at) gmail.com

DeeDee Belmares

I am a conservative small business owner working hard at running a busy company. Melissa and I have been together for almost 14 years and we are moms raising an awesome kid named Austin. I am an activist under construction. Above all, I am a grateful lesbian. It’s 10 p.m. and I am writing this, but after two weeks of non-stop work at the janitorial cleaning company I own, juggling the schedule of a busy 10 year-old son, and being very sick, I realize I am tired. As I settle into my recliner, Melissa and I still need to talk about our day, Austin’s grades and things that need to get done at home. This is when I know that I am blessed. And I just happen to be LGBT.

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